Happiness

Life is so interesting. Often I find myself asking what, in this life, will make me happy? And then inevitably, what is happiness? Is it a choice? State of mind? A fulfillment of your life purpose or an inner desire? Is it having everything? Is it thinking you have everything? Is it always temporary? Do we lose it by comparing ourselves to the sample of people who have "more" than us and always will? I find myself looking for it all to often. I always say, "As soon as I get there I will be happy." But I have run out of "theres" and I want to be happy now. I feel as if I am meandering aimlessly through life just trying to plan things to keep myself always looking forward to something. But I'm at a loss. The happiness from the things and trips I buy does not outlast the buyers remorse. The happiness I get from being with friends and family does not carry over into the time I spend alone. It is easy to pretend to smile but I miss laughing. It is easy to shut the door, but I can't turn off my brain. I'm just a mess. I spend all my time worrying about people, and thinking of how I can help them and what I could of said differently or shouldn't of said at all. I'm driving myself crazy. I know my happiness should not be dependent on the actions and happiness of those around me but it is right now. I look around and see all the people who are hurting and ruining there own lives and realize I am helpless. I feel as if all the sadness of the world weighs down my shoulders and seeps into my spine flowing through my toes and back up my front till it grabs my heart, fills my throat, and if I start to cry I fear I will never stop. Then I get even more sad because I feel no one will ever have this much care for me, and hearts do not go out for me like mine goes out to them. I fear I am misunderstood and cannot express the real me because if I did I think, I hope, that everyone would like me. And I do not understand why certain people do not appear to, and am not sure why I care. Maybe I should join the world and only care about myself and look out for number one. Maybe I should only put energy into caring about people who appreciate it and will give it back to me. Maybe I should go live in another country and put all my energy into helping people that do not have water or a home to sleep in. I have a lot on my mind and over-think life. I am afraid of others reading my concerns, but even more afraid that no one will read them. So I remember why I started a blog in the first place and it is to work through things that are in knots in my head and maybe, possibly, to find others who have the same thoughts. So although I neglect my blog, and more often then not, do not post what I do write, I need to get these out of my head and get my sanity back. I could write forever and have lots of things to work through at the moment but I will end it with this.

Dear God, I have struggled with believing in you and have often felt ignorant when I do. But I have everything and something is missing in my life. Please help me realize what that is, if it is you, or my purpose, or if I'm trying to control to many things that are out of my control. Please help me stop trying to help people that are not asking for it. Please help me stop being angry with the people who do not want to change, and to stop being angry with the people who have hurt me. Help me forgive, help me forgive myself. Help me find peace, and set me free. Use me for something greater for people who are willing to change and need my help.
Love, Carrie